Thankful? YES

Thanksgiving has always been a special holiday for me, probably my most favorite. Why, because that's when my family comes together. When my Dad was still here we were all together at their house for dinner, now everyone tends to have dinner with the In-Laws, but in the afternoon everyone starts gathering at my house. It started a few years ago, long after my Dad had passed away and my Mom had started dating a man that some (okay, most) of us didn't really approve of. We just started to develop new traditions within each of our families as our kids got older, married, had kids of their own. Our tradition now is to have dinner with Brad, Chely, the kids, and Chely's parents. It's nice that the grand kids can have dinner with both sets of Grandparents and we do truly all get along, it's always a great time. Anyway, back to my story: So over time a few of my family started coming by for dessert later in the afternoon and now it's grown to the point that I will probably have around 40 guests at my house this afternoon. This year is special because in the past year two nieces and one nephew have moved back to the Ozarks from Florida, so they and their families will be with us today. I think as we age, we begin to realize that nothing can take the place of family and I'm so thankful that I will be surrounded by a lot of family today.

Here's a few things that I'm thankful for:
a) Doyle--I can't even begin to list all the reasons, so I won't even try!
b) Brad--That despite having us for parents he has grown into a good man.
c) Chely--She's a great Mother (and she's learned to put up with Brad)!
d) Grand kids--There is truly nothing better in this life.
e) My Job--Most days I don't even mind going.
f) My home--It may be humble, but it's almost paid for!!!
g) Our families & friends--We regret all the times we missed family functions with the Kruse side and we're trying to change that as much as we can living so far away. I feel like my family (the Finley's) are finally starting to come around and realize that there is more to life than getting somewhere or getting something. Family is where it's at!!! I'm trying to make a conscience effort to be a better friend because you know: to have a friend, you have to be a friend!!!

Okay, that's my list, and reading back over it I can say that I have a pretty good life. My wish for everyone this Thanksgiving is to take a minute and think about what you are thankful for this year. Now, I'm off to get ready for a great meal at Don & Sharon's, and to put the finishing touches on a few things here at home. Happy Turkey Day to all!!!!!